如果恋爱了

亲爱的姑娘，
如果一段关系让你感到疲惫，像被乌云遮住了阳光，记得先停下来抱抱自己,我们不必为别人的情绪负责，你的感受和快乐，才是最值得守护的,愿你像春天的风一样轻盈，像夏日的花一样绽放，永远被温暖和爱意包围

Dear girl:
if a relationship makes you feel tired,
like the sun being covered by dark clouds, remember to stop and hug yourself first. We don't have to be responsible for others' emotions.
Your feelings and happiness are the most worth guarding.
May you be as light as the spring wind,
as blooming as summer flowers,
and always surrounded by warmth and love.